Relationship Coaching
for Singles and Couples
Break free from endless swiping and bad dates
Rekindle the spark in a relationship
Attract love and partnership beyond your wildest dreams…forever
What is a Relationship Coach?
If you are like most of my clients, you have a great job, great friends, and overall great life. Just one thing is missing…A great partner.
You’ve tried the apps, you’ve tried the matchmaking, you’ve tried to let your friends and family set you up.
And now…You’re exhausted.
Here’s the thing…
Finding love doesn’t have to feel like shopping at the used car lot. It feels like hard work because you are changing who you are to become what you think they want.
Stop it!
Real connection is not only possible, it’s looking for you too.
You just need guidance to step into your full potential and experience effortless love.
Before coaching to the outside world, my clients seem confident and put together and like they have a lot going for them.
But on the inside are lonely and unsure how to create the life they want, because despite their achievements, their romantic life is unfulfilling.
After coaching, they feel confident and find a deep, lasting love.
Find the joy and fun in dating again!
About Varsha
Varsha Mathur, J.D, PCC, a certified dating and relationship coach with over seven years of experience, guides clients worldwide to effortlessly find and sustain lasting love with their ideal partners.
Through her tailored coaching approach, Varsha empowers both singles and couples to cultivate confidence, ignite attraction, and build partnerships that withstand the test of time.
Varsha, a former practicing lawyer and mediator, draws on her personal journey, including divorce and remarriage, to help others make decisions untainted by negative influences, propelling them toward their dreams.
Featured on numerous podcasts, workshops, articles, and TV/Radio outlets, Varsha's expertise has made her a sought-after international speaker in the realm of love and relationships.
Beyond her coaching endeavors, Varsha's passions extend to art, music, and good parties with good friends. Yet, she feels most at home while traveling the world with her partner.
In the news
-Divya
“Varsha has a friendly, optimistic, comfortable & realistic aura. At a difficult point in my relationship, I was unsure of what I wanted. Varsha helped me discover the key factors to consider when making relationship decisions. She successfully guides you through the problems of everyday life.”
-R
Varsha is very responsive and exudes positivity, she asks a lot of questions to get to know you, instead of giving prescriptive methods, to provide advice and suggestions to help you move you forward at your pace.
Topics Covered in Relationship Coaching
Love & Attraction
Knowing a relationship is right for you
Sustaining a relationship
How to listen and communicate effectively
When to end a relationship
Understanding the various relationship types
Feminine & Masculine Energy
How to trust yourself and your boundaries
How to build chemistry
Nurture comfort and rapport
Flirting and physical touch
Create attraction
Develop sexual tension / desire
Dating Etiquitte
Setting up a date
Approaching strangers
Dating apps vs IRL
Making someone feel important
Body language
Fashion, Style, Grooming
First impressions
Mindset
Finding Confidence
Getting over an ex
Gaining perspective on past experiences
Nurturing your unique identity
Being authentic
Setting Goals
Social Skills
Overcoming social anxiety
Social awareness
How to make friends
How to meet an ideal match
Starting/maintaining conversation
Building a community
Communication via phone and text
Relationship Coaching is not
for people who have problems,
Relationship Coaching is
for people who have goals.
-Laura
"Varsha helped me to realize the things I already had within myself to guide my way through my emotions and stress. She helped me to be more aware of who I was and how to use my [authentic self] to attract the things I want in life."
-Tina
"I found a man who loves and respects me"
How much is happiness worth to you?
The average divorce in the United States costs $15,000-$20,000.
Making the upfront investment in coaching can not only reduce your risk of divorce but increase your chance at lifelong happiness.
Are you treating dating like a numbers game?
You are going on lots of dates. You may even enjoy going them because the first few dates go so well.
But then suddenly, you’re ghosted, or it just ends.
And you are left blindsided.
Wondering what you did wrong or why you can’t find a deep connection with someone.
Don’t let good matches pass you by.
Tired of lowering your standards?
You might be thinking: “I’m doing fine without coaching, why do I need this?”
Most of my clients felt that way before we started. We discovered their standards for love were too low or they weren’t being honest with themselves about what they really wanted in a partner.
Are you getting in your own way?
Have trouble accepting compliments? Do you get overwhelmed and run away? Not sure how to set boundaries and have trouble trusting yourself in relationships?
These are all common problems when it comes to dating.
Stop questioning every little detail.
Approach dating with confidence and clarity.
Become a magnet for love and connection
Navigate Relationships with confidence and fun
Break relationship patterns that keep you miserable
Relationship Coaching Services
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One-On-One Coaching
For Individuals and Couples
Four 60-minute virtual coaching sessions each month to shift from loneliness and fear to a love-filled existence
Texting & email access between sessions
Tailored resource for your needs and goals
Four 10-15 minutes emergency drop-in sessions
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Singles Group Coaching
12 group coaching sessions across 3 months
Access to Q&A, mindset modules, and spotlight coaching within group sessions
Access to a community
Transformation experience that will change your approach to love and relationships
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Effortless Lasting Love Course
5-module self-paced online course - the step-by-step guide to finding your future husband
One Individual Coaching Session with Varsha to talk about your unique challenges
Plus some bonus surprises along the way. After all, we gotta keep it interesting…right?!
Success stories from hiring a dating coach
Jhanvi was a great first date. After seven years on the dating scene, she had mastered the initial 3-6 months of a relationship but often hit a plateau.
In our coaching sessions, we honed in on the elements of fun, attraction, and the subtle art of flirting. The key insight: a good time didn't rule out the prospect of a lasting commitment.
Her journey after that unfolded as a delightful exploration, discovering more profound connections while shedding the constraints of her checklist.
Jhanvi learned to embrace the joy of the moment, all the while staying true to her values, morals, and dreams for the future.
Did she find what she was looking for?
Jhanvi is now happily married to the love of her life who she met on a dating app.
How Couples Benefit from Relationship Coaching
Mark and Sarah used to have frequent arguments about which set of parents to visit during holidays, how to motivate the kids to study, and the ongoing issue of determining if the dishwasher was clean or dirty. These disagreements would often lead to weeks of not talking and dramatic exits from the room.
Despite these conflicts, Mark and Sarah never wanted to end their relationship. Their strong foundation of love from the past got lost as their lifestyle changed after college. Through coaching, they learned to limit heated arguments to major life crises, rather than letting trivial matters escalate.
By actively showing up for each other and investing time and effort into their relationship, they discovered that maintaining a fun and easy connection was possible if they stopped avoiding their issues.
Now, they have built a stronger connection than they ever thought possible and feel confident that nothing can come between them.
Stop overanalyzing your dates. It’s making it harder for you to attract real connection. Relationship Coaching teaches you how to become magnetic for the type of love that you want.